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Let it go

You can’t move forward if you hold on to the past. You need to let it go and not hold on to it bitterly or with regret. Your past can hold you from living your best future. 

Unlocking the best future you can possibly have starts with letting go of the regrets of the past. Let go of the pain, let go of the bitterness. Forgive. Forget. Wipe the slate clean and move forward. It does not mean return to your past. It means you let go. 

So many people are trapped in this disillusionment that harboring anger towards people will help ease their pain, but it won’t. It will only hurt you more to keep these feelings of bitterness trapped inside. 

If you want a living testimony I have one. Just ask. 

I see so many people living with resentment after breakups and and divorces that it’s not even funny. It’s only hurting you. It’s not hurting them. It’s hurting you. It’s preventing you from living your best life. 

It’s human nature to want to be loved. And when that bond is broken our ego takes a huge hit. And when our ego takes a hit our defenses rise and bitterness and resentment and anger enters in. And it only hurts us and prevents us from moving forward. 

What if we just moved forward? What if we looked ahead instead of playing the victim?

I am living proof of what can happen when you let go and move forward without harboring any bitterness, hate, resentment, or anger. 

I am living my best life. And it is awesome. 

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