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What is self love?
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Don’t be afraid to be yourself. Completely and wholly. Yourself. After all, we are all human. 


We are often caught in this loop of negative self talk because we are limited by our circumstances of the cards we’ve been dealt. Take those cards and play them, play them well no matter what hand you’ve been dealt. 

We aren’t called to be this immaculate ideal perfect human being. We are all flawed in some way. No one is perfect. We are called to be real. 

This starts by taking off the masks. 
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Whether you face a mental illness or not, love yourself. Love everything about yourself. Accept the beauty that is yourself and don’t compare yourself to others. You were created to be special and unique just as you are. 

You were beautifully designed from head to toe, every single detail was picked out - and you are beautiful. So stop talking negatively about yourself. 

When you stop talking negatively about yourself you will be so surprised how the internal representation of yourself starts changing into the world around you in a positive way. 

All it takes is reshaping the lens in which we view ourselves that will change the way in which we see the world. It’s baby steps. It starts small, start by saying today I accept myself. 

Then it grows from there until you are a confidence queen and your confidence will radiate into other people regardless of whether you have a mental illness or not. 


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